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Executive Function: Tips to Strengthen Metacognitive Skills in Your Child

Rochelle Matthews-Somerville, PhD

September 2024  |  Executive Functioning

Have you ever wondered how your child can better understand their learning process and become more independent? Do you find yourself wishing for ways to help your child reflect on their successes and challenges more effectively? Perhaps, you have searched high and low for strategies to empower your child with the skills they need to take control of their learning journey but have come up short. If this is you, you are in the right space! 

We're here to help provide you with the tools you need to help your child develop a solid foundation for independent learning! 

As homeschool parents, we wear many hats, but perhaps one of the most important roles we play is helping our children develop the tools they need to learn and grow independently. One of the key tools that benefits students, especially as they progress through their educational journey, is metacognition—thinking about their own thinking.

That's right -- thinking about their own thoughts and actions!


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How often do you stop and think about the choices you've made and why you made them? Probably not too often. Most of us do this automatically, like tying our shoes. You don’t need to remind yourself to "loop, swoop, and pull" anymore. But when you were first learning, you likely had to think through each step carefully. 

Metacognition is essential for all learners, with or without special needs, because it helps students become more aware of their learning strategies, strengths, and areas for growth. For some students with weak executive functioning skills, the skill of "thinking about their thinking" has to be taught more systematically. But the great news is that strengthening this skill can empower your child to become more independent, organized, and confident as a learner -- and there are tools (or strategies) we can provide them.

Here are some tips to help foster metacognition skills in your homeschool:

After a lesson or task, ask your child, “What worked well?” or “What was challenging?” This helps them think critically about how they approached the work and what they could improve next time. Encourage open conversations about mistakes, reminding them that it’s all part of learning.

Help your child set specific, realistic goals for their learning. Whether it's completing a math worksheet or improving reading comprehension, clear goals give them something to aim for. Teach them to check their progress and reflect on how they reached—or didn’t reach—their goal. 

Have teens keep a journal where they record thoughts, feelings, and strategies used during tasks. Reviewing their entries helps them become more aware of how they approach learning.

Thinking out loud while solving a problem or completing a task can help your child see how you approach challenges. Whether it’s reading instructions or working through a math problem, explain your thought process step by step. This can help them develop their strategies for tackling tasks

Metacognition thrives in an environment where mistakes are viewed as learning opportunities. Encourage a growth mindset by praising effort, resilience, and problem-solving, rather than just focusing on the outcome. Remind your child that learning is a process, and every step they take helps them improve.

For students who struggle with executive function, visual support can be a game-changer. Use charts, diagrams, or checklists to help them track their work, see what’s coming next, and reflect on their progress. This is especially helpful for students who benefit from seeing things laid out in front of them.

Periodically check in with your child to see how they’re doing with their goals and tasks. Ask reflective questions like, “How do you think you’re doing?” or “What could you do differently next time?” These conversations can build their self-awareness and ability to self-correct.

Teach teens to ask themselves questions before, during, and after tasks: “What’s my plan? How am I doing? What could I do better next time?” This builds self-awareness and promotes metacognitive growth.

Be Encouraged Through the Journey


Strengthening metacognition in your homeschool is a gradual process, but it will benefit your children for years to come. By teaching them to think about their thinking, you’re equipping them with the tools they need to be successful, reflective, and resilient learners. 


Each step—no matter how small—builds a foundation for independent learning and growth.


Whether your child has special needs or not, these strategies can help all students become more self-aware and capable learners. Take it one day at a time, and know that every effort you put into fostering these skills will make a lasting impact.

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